Follow-Up:
My wife is the same way and about your age. It's getting me seriuosly thinking divorce. She had several miscarriges 5 years ago and breast cancer right after that, but she's been healthy for 4 years. We gone nearly all 4 years without sex. This was not the case before all the problems. She's told me to go elsewhere, but I'm not like that. She try's to make up by making staek dinners and little things (I appreciate them) but not sustitute. Don't expect sympathy. I reccommend giving him a BJ and quit your wining.